He is more aware of how his actions can affect you because he loves you.
We all have repetitive behaviors, but sometimes we don’t realize how they affect others. A positive indicator is watching your spouse become more aware and trying to act in ways that save you pain or disappointment. But keep in mind that it’s better to talk it over with him rather than relying on him to figure out on his own if something is bothering you or if you want him to act differently. Do you realize that your boyfriend can’t read your mind?